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For those of you who identify as gay...

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by dswan, Dec 26, 2015.

  1. dswan

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    Whether you're out or not, don't test the waters by going to have sex with the opposite gender to see if you like it. Chances are you will but it won't be as fulfilling as sex with the same gender. Trust me. I've heard of some gay guys who've yet to have sexual interactions with women just out of the blue decide to do it for the experience. Do not do that!! DO. NOT. DO. THAT! Oh and same girls don't try sex with guys just to see how it goes if you identify as lesbian... Please. Think of it like broke back mountain. Guys going from being broke back to where they belong, with eachother. You have a choice of if u want to go broke or not. Don't falter.


    Oh and this doesn't apply to bisexual ppl it's just homosexual love is seen as the strongest form of love and if u hooked up with the opposite sex you'd be cheating yourself trust me
     
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    I think it's up to each individual what they do. They are entitled to make their own mistakes.
     
  3. AKindOfMagic

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    I agree with that.
     
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    Question is: what would happen if they did decide to do that? Will there be horrible consequences?
     
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    Is this some sort of joke or are you drunk? I find it amusing that you, self-identified bisexual, go around handing out unsolicited advice to gays how they should live their lives.
     
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    Now this is what I was wondering as well.
     
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    I actually have a lesbian friend who did this with someone and he was extremely hurt when he found out she didn't actually like him. Sex is a pretty big deal and you shouldn't be convincing someone you like them just for sex, especially if you're just using them to 'test the waters'.