so i have had a crush on her for at least 4 years - at the start i found her very attractive, and over the past few months we have progressed to talking(!) haha! its a tricky one as she works in the same building but not the same team. A few people in my team know i like her and you know how word spreads around i am now paranoid that other people know.. i probably come across hot and cold with her tbh as I'm scared she will find out and freak out, she has made comments before about not being girly, that i was pretty and smart.. we hung out at the christmas dinner and i don't know if she was making advances but she was touching my leg and back, and said we need to get another night out in January. when i see her in work she beams a smile but the thing is i haven't heard any rumours about her.. but then again she may not be out - but she sorta put herself out there to me? i don't hide who i am and she probably found out about me through work friends. how do i let her know subtly i am interested, incase she isn't interested or gay and i don't make a fool out of myself? its driving me crazy that i don't know what could be... and if its not meant to be i can move on as i have refused a few girls as i can't stop thinking about her.. I'm in a bad way lol
