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Unease yet happiness

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Kaiken, Jan 10, 2016.

  1. Kaiken

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    I proposed to my now fiancé on New Years Eve and he said yes! We wont get married for at least another year or two, but I wanted to put a ring on his finger. I am extremely happy yet at times I do feel a little hesitant. Ben is the man of my dreams and I cannot ask for a more kind and understanding man, but sometimes I get a feeling of cold feet.

    Has anyone gone through the same thing? I have no plans whatsoever to break it off with him, I'm just trying to get a better understanding of what I'm feeling.

    (oh and for some odd reason I can never sleep properly when in his bed, even though its much nicer than mine)
     
  2. headsup1958

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    It's a big decision you have made....like a milestone in your life. It's normal to feel a little anxious about it. I'm glad to see you plan the big day for a year or two out....rushing into it would not necessarily be a good thing. As for the bed, perhaps it's the mattress?