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Getting rid of infatuation feelings

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by CL1990, Jan 29, 2016.

  1. CL1990

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    I have all these feelings for this girl i dont really know. i overthink every single movement she makes and i cant take her out of my mind...i even think about her when thinking about making important life decissions which is stupid because in all fairness i know i will never be with her..im in the closet and dont even know if the has even noticed me (further than politeness)
    I feel i recurrently get these feelings cuz i feel quite lonely and have no one to talk about this but any tip to get her out of my mind would be greatly appreciated!
     
  2. PlaidGlove

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    Hey! I'm getting over a hellish infatuation too! I know how you feel. Let's get through this together, hm? :slight_smile:

    Besides, it's not true you have no one to talk to. You have us here at EC! :slight_smile:

    ---------- Post added 29th Jan 2016 at 02:19 PM ----------

    Oh, and my approach as of now is listening to music that strengthens my willpower—which works wonders, by the way—and making and reaffirming a conscious decision to love myself first and do what is best for me.

    In my case, that means avoiding interactions with the female in question.