Hi, EC We're not Monogamous According to him but I wouldn't necessarily say we are dating to begin with. It's been four months and we are just friends with benefits at this point. He has asked me a couple of times if I was having sex with other guys and while I'm not, I hate being asked. We are always safe if that helps clear things up and even if I was in a relationship it would stay that way. I'm aware that he is seeing other guys but I don't understand why he shares this information with me without me inquiring. Is it okay that he asks this question? Why ask? Help me understand the possible curiosities behind his inquiry.
Some people are just controlling and annoying that way, with everyone, and they don't know how to turn it off—or don't even notice it because that has always been their normal.
I don't ask others about their relations and I don't share my own. Who you've been with is none of my concern and who I've been with should be none of yours. I would tell him that.
