Why is it so hard?

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Jack7513, Feb 5, 2016.

  1. Jack7513

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    I'm a guy. I know that, but it's just me and my brother that do. But why is it so hard for me to be okey with it? It gives me panicattacks and I stay up late at night, just thinking. I just hate being me right now and it sucks that I carry all of these feelings inside of me, because I'm to scared to tell anyone. It literally feels like I'm going to explode. But I guess that I just want to hear that it gets better. That someone has managed to get through it and is happy. I just need some hope.
    Thanks a lot //Jack
     
  2. Billy the kid

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    Hey jack, relax it does get better, instead of feeling like you want to explode you well feel like a weight has been lifted. Take a second and breathe man. Everything is going to be fine. If you want to come out just think about it and make a plan. Pick someone you trust will be accepting, a friend, a family member, a counselor whom ever. Only when you are really ready tell them. You'll be okay, hang in there man.