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Confused

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Kec3553, Feb 14, 2016.

  1. Kec3553

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    I am currently dating a female and really enjoy it but I can not get aroused when the time is right , but for the last 4 years all I can imagine is being with a guy in bed . That's the only thing that arouses me but I can't give it cause I have a son and don't want him to ever know his dad might be gay . Should I just ignore my true feelings forever
     
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  2. Euler

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    Why do you don't want your son to know you might be gay?

    Ignoring or suppressing your feelings is never a good idea. You need to process this one way or another. Perhaps a psychologist or therapist could help you?