Why do men hit on me on dating apps but not women? Right now i had this guy who was even pretty good looking talk to me. He kept insisting we meet up. He was being very pushy (now i know how girls feel when i do it to them). Why does this only happen to me with guys and not girls? I mean i like guys too (maybe, still debating) but my first fascination has always been with girls... maybe im in the wrong forum..