Hi! I have the feeling i dont get normal crushes like everyone else. I feel like they are wayyy more intense and slightly worrying. I sometimes have fallen head over heals over strangers at uni and work (which obviously have proven to be straight). This is something that worries me because i have never had the feeling reciprocated: i have never been with a woman, and the guys i have been with has just been one night kissing basically. I feel that i might be wierd or mentally ill for some reason. Sometimes whilst i talk to my crushes i think "i dont know why i like this person so much its stupid" but then again i cant keep them out of my mind and its very exhausting! Any suggestions?
I can relate to this. I get intense crushes too and get emotionally involved before anything physically happens, which usually gets in the way of anything good developing. I think this intensity could be caused by suppression of our true feelings, especially if the person is of the same gender.
