How would you describe that person? Advice needed

Hey guys, I just wanted your opinion on something.

Assume that there is a person that you love a lot, and that person knows about your attraction and love to him (Because you have told him by urself) but tells you that he doesn't see you the same way. However, he does have sex with you (twice) and then calls it 'a moment of desperation' and still has no special feelings about you.

How would you describe him and why? Can't wait to see your answers, this means a lot to me.

Thank you all!