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How do i ask someone if they are into guys?

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Calmsky58, May 9, 2016.

  1. Calmsky58

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    So this is feeding off of my other problem. I've decided to ask him and see what he says, but now comes the new problem. How do I ask him? What do I say if he says yes? What about if he says no? What if he says nothing.... HELP ME
     
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    Specifically, this someonemail is a guy and I like him but don't know how to ask.
     
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    Well, you can't expect a person to be 100% honest or comfortable revealing their sexuality all the time. So if you're in highschool or live in a conservative area he might not feel comfortable telling the truth, which is something to consider.

    Id just ask if he has a boyfriend or girlfriend or if he likes anyone atm. But if he doesn't know you well, then he might be a little creeper out and just say no :lol:
     
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    So we are in high school. I'm 15 and he is 14. I know he has dated girls before but I'm hoping he might be bi. But my problem is that we aren't like best friends. Like we know each other and talk to eachother, but yeah.
     
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    Drop subtle hints, talk about gay scenes in TV shows and see this reaction