Hey I have know I liked guys from like 12 I would say maybe younger alwyas going to my room looking at hot guys naked and gay porn like tom Dailey his abs amazing mostly gay porn even when I got my first laptop it was like built into my brian didn't look at straight porn or girls just looked at guys gay porn maybe a few straight porn but always looked at the guys and there Dick's. I'm 16 now soon 17 and I would say I havent been questioning my sexuality but well i still like guys find them hot and attractive then I have had thoughts about women sexually i dont like them they don't turn me on i dont see myself with one I don't feel an urge to have sex with women i do with guys they don't give me that same feeling I do when I thought of guys. And yes I know not everyone is 100% gay but I just want these thouhts to stop I even look at straight porn and girls they don't do anything for me I need to stop this because I think this isn't helping me at all? So if I can get some opinions and maybe some help that would be great
Hi, Firstly I'm going to say that I don't believe porn is very good indicator. I have had great relationships with guys before but I generally don't like gay porn. You are correct in saying many people don't fit the binary and it is something that can shift. I don't doubt you are gay, but I don't think it's something to worry about. There is nothing wrong with being curious, and the one thing history has taught us is that trying to change something like this both doesn't work and only harms people. I understand how you feel though. Being bi left me very confused at first and it still is difficult for me. I was repulsed by the thoughts of guys and falling for my BF turned my life on its head at a time when I still believed I was straight, All I knew then was that I wasn't purely gay.
