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I want to sleep with more women before coming out?

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  1. Yaddatollo

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    Hi,

    Is this wrong. I realize that at least I'm not straight, due to what I watch online, and am probably gay, or on the spectrum, but now realizing this and coming to this forum to post about it...I want to sleep with another 50 or so women before coming out. Is there something wrong with me am I mental?
     
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    Not mental, but this is going to take some time unless you're unusually magnetic.

    Maybe if you set this condition it means you're on the non-gay end of the bisexual continuum....
     
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    Hm I'm pretty sure I'm attracted to the same sex, until they take their pants off. I've tried it, not all the way, but until foreplay, and was unimpressed. That what leads me to not want to come out. At the same time what I watch online somewhat doesn't match up with what I desire in the real world.
     
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    Hmm... If you're that excited about sleeping with women, and you're not attracted to the naked body of males, you probably are not strictly homosexual at all. More like you could be bisexual or bicurious?
     
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    I can sort of relate to what your saying. I consider myself bi, but also wasn't impressed with sleeping with a guy. Im more into getting into just emotional relationships with guys and more physical/emotional with women. I feel like in my case it could be subconscious repression? I think the idea is growing on my, but I haven't got much experience either way so can't come up with anything conclusive.
     
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    My question would be, why 50?

    What do you think you will learn after 50 women that you wouldn't learn after 20?

    Go more into detail. Why where you unimpressed? What were you hoping to feel or see? What actually turns you on?
     
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    You want use 50 women as you figure out where you are with your sexuality?!

    Maybe try working it out some other way instead of treating women like they are lab rats.
     
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    I guess 50 more is an arbitrary number, it'll give me confidence to know securely where to go next. Online, I lust after the extremeties of the male body and sometimes the female body, so bodybuilders and video vixens. However, I never had an interest to delve into the far gay end of the spectrum in porn, anal from both sides has turned me off, seeing kissing does nothing for me either man on man, man on woman, or woman on woman. I'm turned on head though, but never had an urge to give it at all, just recieve. When I'm out and about in the real world I don't find may people attractive, but when I do I'm attracted to the most attractive regardless of gender.
     
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    Maybe it's an alternative definition of "bisexual," when you're not all in...
    :lol:
     
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