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Very confused and with no sex life (in the closet)

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by CL1990, Jun 27, 2016.

  1. CL1990

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    Im 25 have never had sex and i am very confused. I always known i liked girls a lot but i have ner kissed one or can picture myself doing anything else. With regards to men i am attracted to them slightly and when have kissed with some of them have felt arroused but because i am still a virgin i feel its too late for me to explore either way without being considered a wierdo for not getting into sex earlier. I am very curious (specially with girls) but i feel i have missed my boat.
    As an extra reminder of my lack of sexual life i have to deal with. My flatmates (male) bringing girls quite often and me being jelous of why i cant be straight!
     
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    It is never too late to have sex. Have you tried to make some girl friends who are lesbian/bi? Sometimes, you can find the right person who is okay with your inexperience and willing to teach you. Those that judge you for being a virgin are probably not good choices in the first place.