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Pansexuality is a curse?

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Alexrocks1253, Jul 10, 2016.

  1. Alexrocks1253

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    I really hate that I'm sexually attracted to all genders. I feel like I'm greedy and I get rejected so many times because of my sexuality. I feel like it's one of my bad attributes. :icon_redf Please :help:
    Or (*hug*)
     
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    Would you really want to date the kind of person who dislikes certain people because of their sexuality? Why do you feel that you are greedy?
     
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    I also question this?
     
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    Well, I like a lot of people.
     
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    Don't we all? It's okay to be attracted to all genders. Call it open-mindedness instead of greed.
     
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    Yeah, liking both genders is hard if you're a guy. But if you like so many people you are bound to find a partner eventually.
     
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    Hopefully. It has only happened once, but it was short lived because of the move to Spain.
     
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    People who cheat unrepentantly are greedy. You just see beauty in a lot of different places.
     
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    Yeah. I guess your right.
     
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    Dude, don't worry about it. Unless you have gathered up all the hot people in the world and locked them in your basement(in which case, wow, I'm not hot? Rude.), you are not greedy. I used to think that until I realized I am not actually being greedy, just being who I am. I have male and female crushes, and people who only like one sex can have many crushes. No need to feel bad. Hope that helped. :grin:
     
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    The way I think of it is that it is impossible for me to be greedy. Because, frankly, all the people that believe I'm greedy and won't date my for my orientation leave me with a very small list of people who are open to dating me. So really, I have a small group of people to go out with, but you see, the good part is that gender doesn't matter. So it is really quite the selection no matter how small.

    (If you wondering, this is my logic when I am half asleep. I hope it makes sense :grin:)
     
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    Yeah. It makes sense.