I really need advice My boyfriend just told me that as a surprise he booked us a couples sauna thing(?) (I'm not sure, I've never done anything like this before) Except one little snag. I've been taking hormones for a year, so I am an androgynous boy with a cups.... And I don't know what I'm supposed to do!? I don't want to get questioned by anyone there, in fact I don't want to go at all. I'm really afraid that something horrible is going to happen just because I look like a girl even though I'm a boy! I can't calm my nerves and we are supposed to leave in 10 minutes!! If I had more time I would have maybe done some things to feel better, but right now this is it....I am freaking out guys.... please help me.....
Put a towel around yourself? It may look girly, but sometimes looking a little girly is better than everyone knowing you are female biologically. :/
Hmm, this seems like a bit of a strange thing for your boyfriend to spring on you. Perhaps you should talk to him about it, express your concerns - so he can tell you a bit more about what's involved?
