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I dislike bissexual men??

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by me1994, Aug 5, 2016.

  1. me1994

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    Hi everyone,

    well my name is Mario and i am from Brazil. I am sorry if i type something wrong in English , i hope you can understand i joined website today.

    I came here because i really wanted to express my feelings about bi men. i may seem to be Biphobic but its not hate i guess , i will explain my title.

    Well i cant really date bi guys ... once in the school i really liked one , when it was 2010 i was out and... and everyone thought this guy i liked was gay. I always wanted to meet him but he never seemed very interested in my apperance and then he dated a girl and it was like ''boooooom'' to me and later he had a son , and really got really sad just like maleficent in the movie... and i think her story is like mine always. then i found that he was bi.

    that what happined to me years ago. I felt realy bad and still nowdaydays i cant date bi guys most of them are married to girls and think that men are made only to have sex and fun i hate this so much when it comes to men they want masculine , muscles , sexy etc... but if they want women they like fat women , feminine women (lol of course) like they want every type ... and men should be just in shadow :icon_sad: that really gets me... and i also cant date guys that has children from previus relationship i dont know it doesnt feel right to me even if i give a chance to a bi men i wouldnt feel comfortable with him . That feeling that he likes women and etc... i never understood this feeling very well but i searched on net and i think is about ''compettive thing'' i dont know how to explain . I am a very emotional person i wanna love cuddle be important to the right guy , but just imagine him exchanging me for a women and doing this with her i would be very bad so i cant really date a guy and i cant find a gay guy i am very very unlucky most of men in the apps are bi or kiss girls etc... even commercials are like that! instead of gays commercials they want to make everyone bi , and that stupid culture if you want to be sexy you have to be muscled and go to party clubs pff.... even porn actors have family like wife and with the guys they just want sex. its feels so unfair . And also transgender men , why most of trans men are bi? i also cant understand this i wish there were more trans gay guys , you may see that its weird but trans men are not women they still are males!! and some of them are really beautiful and i am as a bottom guy. Other thing that i dont like is that some of bi guys are only bottom to men and top with girl this also feels so unfair to me .... btw i really cant date a bi guy.... the sad thing is that i cant find a gay men where i live. I just came here to express myself i think i am not spreading hate everyone has your own thought about the things and i hate when some people offends me because of that ... i just wanted to meet guys like me gay men. Everyone can be what they want to be . well these are my thoughts or experiences, i would like to know your opinion
     
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    The problem here is straight culture. Sometimes even lesbians (I'm a lesbian) have this same insecurity with bi girls. The problem is the same. Because there are also women who leave for a man, who only sleep with girls for sex and not love, who think only straight sex counts....

    I used to have the same insecurity for the same reason. But then I got to know more people and realized I was stereotyping. They're not always like that. Sometimes even a gay person can leave you for the opposite sex if their denial is strong.

    I think you need to meet the right people. Though if you don't want to date bisexuals, that's also your choice I suppose.
     
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    awwww Thank you so much for your reply , sometimes i feel so wrong to have these feelings, i know that there are bi guys that respect men and wanna love them for true and maybe get marry but i just cant get in a relationship with a bi guy its like i couldnt. but i am not a spreading hate or something i think its just a choice as you said and everyone should be happy with theirselves. I really really appreciate your reply , yes i do hope i find my gay men that wouldnt leave me for the opposite sex :frowning2: