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Is my friend bi?

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Bicnot, Sep 5, 2016.

  1. Bicnot

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    I'll keep this quick. I'm a 40 year close bi, I have little gay experience and have a 21 year old friend I am attracted to.

    He is quite prolific with girls. However around a year ago, when drunk he allows my massage him with his top off on two different occasions. Once he allowed my masturbate is semi erect pen us and massage and kiss his bum cheeks. Nothing more occurred, he insists he is str8 and now knows if my bi sexuality.

    Last week, he slowed me massage him
    With top off again, allowed me to kiss his back and despite him mentioning the fact he could feel my excitement against him, for which he token rebuked me he allowed the massage to continue. It drove and still is driving me mad with sexual frustration,

    My question is, do you think he has persuasion that he hides? I certainly don't think his compliance is totally str8.

    Many thanks
     
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    He seems pretty open lol I think you should probably just ask him if he would ever date or be with a guy
     
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    If he was drunk both times I wouldn't say so but it could be possible or he is just extremely comfortable with you.
     
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    Hmmm How drunk was he those two times!?! :lol:
     
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    It's 3 times now. Drunk enough to remember ha.
     
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    Well, he doesn't sound totally straight, but the best way to find out is to ask. He seems pretty open to homoerotic massages multiple times after all. :lol: