I am questioning and want to try it out. I know that there are women who will take advantage of me in this vurnable state. How do I know someone genuinely cares about me and it's not messing with me. For example if someone I someone like returns my interest how can I be sure it's genuine and she's not just taking advantage of me. How can I tell a real kiss from a fake one.
Be clear about your intentions and your own goals in any given situation, and ask them what their expectations/intentions are as well. If you want dating or are looking for a relationship at this point, then say so, and if they're looking for different things, it's okay to say that this isn't the person for you.
