I'm transgender and have been out for 2 years and 2 months. Here's the good and bad that have been going on, and don't worry there's a point to this. The Good: I legally changed my name!!! I made a lot of internet friends! For a while I had an accepting job! Got to go to a Pride event! The Bad: Got kicked out of my parent's house kinda. Live with anti-trans family Got fired for a mental health issue I couldn't help Lost 98% of all friends Extended family is extremely cold Nobody related to me at all accepts me Nobody related to me will stop dead-naming me I can't get hired anywhere I was permanently banned from my football team Got my phone smashed because I wasn't welcome in the women's restroom DYSHPHORIA ALL DAY EVERY DAY. Nowhere near ever getting HRT I guess the point is... I've made no progress, or if I did, it's been undone. I'm spinning my wheels here, and that's killing me. I'm no better off than when I came out.