Hi, im a 15 y/r old male. Okay, im gonna get right in to the point here; I dont want to have sex with women. I dont want to have a relationship with a women (other than friend). And I dont feel attracted to them in public. I do want to have sex with a guy. I do want to have a relationship with a guy (more than just friends). And I feel attracted to guys. Yet, i get boners when seeing naked girls... could this just be my age, or something more? Btw the boner i get are not as hard as the ones i get when seeing a naked dude.
You don't have to label your self at this point. Take some time. You'll figure the answers out. When I was your age the wind blowing across my blue jeans made it stand up!
Hey Imcurios, In what context are you seeing the naked girls and guys that cause you to have erections? Pornography? Or real-life? When you masturbate without pornography do you fantasize exclusively about guys or about guys and girls?
Pornography is a very poor indicator of sexuality. For example, some straight guys get off on gay pornography and even some lesbians like to watch gay male pornography. In neither case is it a true indicator of their sexual orientation. It's just fantasy and/or the excitement of 'forbidden fruit.' If you fantasize exclusively about guys when masturbating and never about women, that would be a pretty good indicator that you are mostly likely gay, not bi. But, of course, only you can actually know your own sexuality. All that is truly important is that you are understand and accept your sexuality, however you are comfortable defining it in your own mind. How you may choose to identify your sexuality to anyone else is also completely your choice and should also be whatever makes you comfortable. I hope that helps a little.
Thank you so much for your reply. I think this will help me grearly on my journey to find out my sexual orientation!
