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How to know if you're in love?

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by anthracite, Jan 25, 2017.

  1. anthracite

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    I never experienced this. But I wonder...there is this girl. We're friends and somehow I thought about what it would be like if we were a couple. I wouldn't say no if she asked but wouldn't ask myself. She's really cool. Got humor, you can have fun with her. She's clever and we have a very similar taste in music. She is one of the few people who would never complain about my bad habits and this would be important for me if I were looking for a relationship. We can discuss politics and this is pretty similar too. So according to personality it's just a great match. And looks. She is beautiful but doesn't quite get that :wink:

    I wonder if I feel something more than friendship. Or if it's just a hypothesis because we would match well.
     
  2. AnAtypicalGuy

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    If you feel like you want to get closer to her, then go for it. Don't over-analyse things. Try hanging out with her more, take it slowly. If you wind up not feeling anything beyond friendship then that's fine, you still got yourself a good friend. But if stronger feelings develop then... You'll just know, I guess.

    Sorry if that's not helpful but that's just how love is. It's difficult to describe how to know if you're in love, as it just happens. Ultimately you won't know how you truly feel until you make a move, so you should at the very least do something. In any case, good luck.