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am I considered a stud/butch?

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Chewbaca, Jan 29, 2017.

  1. Chewbaca

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    Am I considered a butch if the only girls I've liked are femmes and I don't like wearing typical femme clothes?
     
  2. Cory675

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    Maybe, maybe not, but why the need to adopt a label? Why should it matter?

    You're you. Just be you :slight_smile:

    I'm a gay guy. To some guys I could be considered a twink, to others an otter, some guys may think I'm a bottom, others a top. I'm fairly masculine but a little passive. I'm not necessarily any one of those things but probably a combination of them all. You see, I don't necessarily fit in any particular label because I am so much more complex than that. There's no point in trying to put a label on ourselves. They're simple social constructs that have no concrete meaning in real life anyways.

    Be yourself. Just yourself. Be proud of it :slight_smile:

    Have a good rest of your weekend!
     
  3. dyl pickle

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    Couldn't have said it better than Cory :slight_smile: