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Disappointed and Satisfied at the Same Time

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by DanielaKc, May 20, 2017.

  1. DanielaKc

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    Hey

    So...

    I sleep with this cute hippie girl a couple days ago and it was dreamy... but also very disappointing.

    It was too easy.

    It's got me thinking a lot

    Casual sex never felt so empty and fulfilling at the same time

    I make zero sense, I know

    But it has shaken me a little.

    She wants to continue but I think I had enough, still, I don't want to regret rejecting her later on

    What should I do?
     
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  2. beenthrdonetht

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    Sometimes casual can lead to romantic. It's kind of a frowned-upon direction.

    But of course you're quite right (IMHO) to want some proper emotion to go along with that great physical thing. I'd say I agree with your last point: you don't want to regret rejecting her later on. She could be ... well anything.
     
  3. mnguy

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    Do you like her? Why not start dating if she wants to? If not, what's wrong with her? When you wrote dreamy it sounded so nice, like why not see where it goes and enjoy the trip. :slight_smile: