All my life I've fallen for girls based solely on their face smile and personality never body is anyone else like this
The first thing I notice is the face. I can count the amount of serious crushes I have had in my life on my hands, and I think all of them have been based on face/eyes. That's not to say I am not attracted to the body.
I notice men's faces mostly (unless they're really buff!) and everything about women at once... but I'm a sucker for a cute smile
I almost exclusively fall for personality types, not looks. Although I do find certain kinds of looks attractive, it's just passing attraction that really doesn't figure in to whether I seriously consider getting to know them (though it can be a plus). What generally plants the seeds of romance for me is sharing a lot in common with the person; getting a kindred spirit kind of vibe. The feeling that I can just be my weird self around them and be appreciated ^_^. In terms of specific physical traits that I find attractive, I'd say being slender with an approachable sort of face (i.e a kind, open smile) are some things I find attractive. I'm pretty much exclusively into guys with a feminine side to them, I really feel nothing for buff or otherwise masculine guys. The odd thing is that I'm actually not that attracted to girls, despite liking femininity as a trait in guys.
D'you know what? I was going to make a thread with the exact same question! I'm in the exact same position as you are.
that's usually how my crushes happen. as a larger woman, i don't really care about body size...provided they're not so skinny that i'll snap them.