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Obsessing and pessimistic about attending college.

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Stridenttube, Apr 7, 2013.

  1. Stridenttube

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    Hello everybody, I started this thread in hopes of receiving some insight about this. I've set a goal for myself to start college shortly after I turn 21 (pathetic goal, I know) For the last month I've been completely obsessing about this. It's getting to the point where it's consuming my life and sucking away all of my happiness. I didn't take any AP courses while I was attending high school. Even worse, I didn't do too hot in the classes I did take. I graduated towards the lower end of my graduating class. I failed algebra II on more than one occasion because I have a problem with day dreaming during class. Not to mention I didn't do my homework.

    I'm stressing because I don't believe I will be able to handle the work in college. I'm not a grammar god, and I'm not great with math or memorization. I have a friend who told me that it's not much different than high school, especially because I went to one of the more rigorous schools in the state, and the university I'll be attending accepts pretty much anyone with a pulse. My question is this: is college as difficult as everyone makes it out to be? Or am I overreacting, and it's actually not much worse than high school. I haven't slept in the last three days because this is stressing me out so much, so any input would be great.
     
  2. AKTodd

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    I found it significantly more difficult than HS because I had to learn how to study, not just rely on having a really good memory. That said, I also went in as an engineering major and discovered that higher math and I just don't mix. I could memorize and use formulas but not as a general case.

    Once I switched majors to English things got much easier as I like to read and write pretty well.

    I guess I'd say that a lot will depend on what you plan to major in and on learning how to study early on. I would plan on looking into what resources the university can offer around this, whether 'Howe to Study' classes, tutors, or whatever. Especially in your first two years you should focus on learning to study, do the work at the college level, and managing your time. Once you have those down, you will find it much easier to play around a bit but still get everything done.

    Hope this helps,

    Todd
     
  3. Stridenttube

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    That's just makes everything worse! Haha. Ill be a buissness major, I hear its not as hard as other majors but I'm still an idiot.
     
  4. asmith6543

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    Hey, dont sweat it. You probably werent focused in high school. Go to a community college and transfer to a university after two years if possible. You will have a MUCH better GPA, and by the time you get to the university, you will be closer to the age of 24, and you will get the federal Pell grant, which is a GRANT by the federal government, which you will not have to pay back. (Its NOT a loan). Community colleges are cheaper, the teacher teach you better, and help you prepare for college. You may be scared now, but when you get to school, you will realize everyone else feels just as nervous as you are, and you will learn that its no big deal and you will get over it.

    As a junior and senior, you could get upto 5,000 dollars each year. So financially you will not have to worry about paying for school.


    If money was never an issue to begin with, then great! Now regarding AP classes. When you get to college, no one really cares about them anymore. I took AP Latin, but went into Engineering, and i wasnt able to use it. Big deal, but move on. Lots of others retake classes even if they tested out of them.

    Realize that while the business major may not be hard, its increasingly difficult to find a job in today's market with the degree. My suggestion is to go to school and take the basic requirements first. Go in undecided. Take the math placement test. and STUDY b/c you are now paying. Make the most of your money. Your GPA will be important too. The higher the GPA, the better your chances of scholarships, being accepted to your 4 year institution should you decide to take the transfer option, etc.


    Got any questions for me?
     
  5. Mogget

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    The difficulty of any major is dependent more on the professors and the school than the content itself. I've taken a gazillion classes in both natural science and the humanities and there've been 400-level science courses that were easier than 200-level humanities courses, simply because the professors had different standards (not to say both weren't good, but I personally find labs and tests easier than twenty-page papers).
     
  6. Stridenttube

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    Great answer! It was very informative. I was planning to go to the community college that Ok State has a gateway program with to get my gen Ed out of the way. I'm not really worried about the cost as the estimated cost for 4 years is roughly 38k before scholarships ect. I decided years ago that I want to major in information systems. I've started a career in IT and I just want a degree so I don't hit a glass ceiling later on in life.

    I'm just a pretty bad student in general. I'm always afraid I did something wrong on an assignment.

    Why would I have a much better GPA if I start at a CC?
     
  7. castle walls

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    Disclaimer: I did do the whole AP classes thing in high school and I was guaranteed (assuming I didn't flunk my classes) an early graduation from university before I started so that my affect my opinion.

    Honestly, I really don't think college is as difficult as everyone says it is. I never found college to be really difficult but I do think it is more work than high school.

    If you're concerned about how you'll do, you can start by taking a small number of units to see how things go.

    As for going to community college first, be careful with that. Make sure you find out if your classes will transfer to your chosen university before you take them. If you're planning on going to university in the same state as the community college you'll probably be fine but make sure to check. I know way too many people that went to community college first and then found out the majority of their credits didn't transfer
     
  8. asmith6543

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    Depending on your college, generally your classes will be larger at a 4 year institution, and the tests will be WAY harder. They make is harder so that there is a larger distribution of grades. It doesnt look that good if the teacher gives everyone an A, so they will want a nice spectrum of grades, with mostly B's and C's.

    If you take it at a community, the classes are smaller, the teacher are more readily available to help you, and WANT you to do really well. They generally dont care about having a wide range of grades.

    My suggestion is to find a transfer guide at either at your community college or university that shows which courses will DEFINITELY transfer over so you know before hand how much coursework you can take at the community college, and try to take as many as you can before you transfer over. I'm glad 'castle walls' mentioned that fact.

    I know when i took calculus 3, they told us b/c one stupid little topic, Stokes Theorem, was not taught, a certain school would not accept it. Thank god I didnt end up going to that school, but lots of people were upset.
     
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  9. Stridenttube

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    I know for a fact that they are guaranteed to transfer. Anyway, I know some complete idiots that do okay in college so maybe ill be okay after all. Thanks for everyone who answered. :thumbsup: