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help! bestfreind fancys me

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by blue123, Apr 17, 2013.

  1. blue123

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    Hi, I have recently became bestfreinds with a male, we get along so well and hes really nice to me, the other day he told me that he really liked me but wasnt ready for a relationship yet because*of his mental health but as soon as hes better he would like to date me, I was too scared to tell him I didnt like him in that way so instead I told him that yeah i think its better to be freinds for a while first for all relationships to go well as we havnt been freinds for that long. I haven't told him im a lesbian and I know his family well and they are jehovah witnesses, im affaried they might disapprove of this, also the obvious reason I havnt told him is because he fancys me, I wish he was a girl, i have never met anyone so lovely and caring. I know the best thing to do is just tell him but im affarid are friendship will not be the same after. I think I have lead him on without noticing, I feel terrible for that. Any advice on how to tell him a lesbian?