Do u need experience with a girl to know if you're lesbian?

Some people might think so and tell you, "You haven't dated a girl! How do you know??", but I have absolutely no experience in anything and I know I'm gay. If that's what you feel, then that's what you feel and nobody should tell you otherwise.

 

Nope. It might take that for some people, but if you question yourself you can come to an understanding without any experience. ^ + what Nyanko said

 

I agree with the previous posters. You don't need experience to know whether or not you are lesbian. Some may need it, some may not. The questioning bit may be normal for some people.

 

Well, do you need experience with a guy to know you're straight?

 

I think it helps, kind of. I've always known I fancied girls haha, but we live in a straight world, so, I grew up believing that I liked boys and that was really hard to take off of me. You know?!

I mean, you don't have to experience, but sometimes it helps. When I first kissed a girl I realized I enjoyed each much more than when I kissed a guy. I remember my friend asked me "did you like it better?" and I was like "yeah..." haha. So, I guess it's different when you lived your life thinking you had to be with a guy. Do I like guys? OF COURSE! They are good friends for me. But I can't see myself dating a boy, or living with a boy or having sex with a boy. It's weird for me. But with girls... that's totally different.

I think you should experience with a girl. But try coming out as "questioning", well, there is no problem about kissing some people, you know?! Haha.

 

Everyones diffrent, some people need to test some people dont. Like me for example i tested to see if i was bisexual and i know i am not.My experience was just weird and not enjoyable and i have no idea how my best friend talked me in to it lol. The things i do for my friends lol

 

No. It's feelings, not experiences, that tell you what you are.

 

As the definition states, sexuality is an attraction, not an act or actions. You don't have to have had any sexual.experience to know to who or what genders you're attracted to.
I'm a virgin myself, yet I'm certan of my sexuality, because of past atractions to different people.

 

That's what I always think! Yeah in my opinion, you don't need to.