How to identify other lesbian?

Hmm, I know what you mean... I am only really out to my close friends at the moment, but want to meet another girl (preferably one who isn't straight... That would be nice) My friends talk about having a gaydar and one of them said " I thought x was bi?" Even though they have never said anything about it. It's kinda frustrating cause you have to assume everyone is straight.

 

I'll be the first to say i have very little experience in this, but I've noticed with people who I know are gay or bi, they will look at you in a certain way and you know right away what they mean by it. I think it has to do with eye contact. I've heard people talk about rainbow bracelets or a thumb ring, but I don't know if that's accurate. Do you have an lgbt club in your area or gsa club in your school? That might be a good place to start.

 

I wish I knew the answer to this, but my guess is that there no answer. I can't think of anything I do that makes people think "She is so gay". And they don't. Ever. But here I am. There aren't really any cues to tell you this. Unless of course she looks at girls in a way that you can tell is checking them out.

 

Other than the ladies who wear very obviously LGBTQ themed items or meeting women at groups which are for those who are, or those who support people who are, LGBTQ, I'm not sure there's anyway to identify the sexuality of another until she decides she's going to take a chance on showing her sexuality to you.

But I am dense, so dense I can't spot a lesbian in a bar full of lesbians during a weekend of Lip Service and Sugar Rush marathons.

 

i was with a colleaque the other day on lunch and this beautiful waitress approached us...

she smiled and had the seduction look in her eyes when addressing my colleaque... i knew she was gay or bi... my colleaque disagreed so when the waitress came with our lunch i asked her for her number and she said sorry she's gay

there's this seductive look we give eachother when we fancy someone watch out for that look when you see a girl talking to another girl ...

 

Im having the same issue. Im thinking Winfield is onto it, there is this look and a gut feeling I guess that goe with it. But dam if we do or dont cuz it could be misreading and then what? You would think with how far things have come we should be ok to just ask? Yea.....lmao

 

If you wear a small rainbow bracelet or a piece of jewelry with a pink triangle on it, are either of those good "hints" to other girls?

 

Ever since I had sex with a girl for the first time my gaydar has significantly improved. Obviously it's completely psychological and I think it has to do with being more comfortable with my own sexuality. Like...I gave myself a little more permission to feel how I feel and suddenly I can pick it up on other girls way better. Guys too!

 

Personally, I can tell by the way they look, there's something in their eyes that just shows it. Idk what it is...but I've only been wrong once, and I've been picking people out since before I knew I was gay myself.

 

1. If they don't talk about cute guys.
2. If they wear rainbow themed accessories.
3. If they aren't "like everyone else"