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I feel like I'm dying.

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by SparkleDuck, May 8, 2013.

  1. SparkleDuck

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    I came out to my mom after a doctor visit for depression and an apparent "mood disorder"
    the doctor gave me pills.. but I told my mom I didn't want them.. I wanted counselling.. After a bit of bickering I told her I was depressed because of being trans.
    She took it okay.. but I can't stop worrying and crying because I know my dad's a bit more old fashioned.. and I'm just so scared of breaking his heart because I'm not "his little girl". I don't know what to do.. I have the worst headache.. I just feel dead right now..
     
  2. Emberblaze

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    Hey, hang in there man, I think a lot of us has been there... Wanting to live up to our parents' expectations and such...

    If you have a loving and healthy relationship with your dad, he may understand. Do you two get along well?
     
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    This is the reality that most of us have had once in our lives. He's your father no matter what, and he should love you regardless :slight_smile:
     
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    Dead people feel no pain. If you're hurting, you're alive. Like PanaChevere said, his love for you should overwhelm any negative feelings he might have. I think you'll be okay.

    And congrats on telling the truth to them. They might listen to you about the counseling after knowing that fact <3
     
  5. Rose27

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    Proud of you! You may not ne his "little girl" but will always be his child. Same person inside but even better because in time he/your mom will see that you are happier. That's what a parent wants most for thier child.