Okay so its safe to say, I completely suck at flirting and I can't do it to save my life and I don't know how to flirt and As i recall....In order to flirt, I need to gain self confidence How do gain self confidence....and flirt? I mean, whenever, i try to flirt with a girl....I end up falling over my words and making a complete fool out of myself. I don't want to let the girl do the talking all the time, I want to flirt back but I never know how. I get really nervous when I flirt and I am so careful with girls, I'm always worried, i'll break them or hurt them in someway and that's not what i want to do.
I'm sorry but I have no idea how to flirt... It's something you can't teach which sucks cause hell I could do with a lesson haha! I guess with me it's my inability to flirt and awkwardness that makes me seem attractive. I'm not entirely sure on this as am just guessing from what minor/little experience I've had. Just go with the flow I suppose... easy said than done cause if I was talking to someone I was attracted to, you can be sure that I would stumbling over my words and practically doing everything one is not meant to be doing when flirting Hmmm....
Maybe its a fear of rejection I know that's a big fear of mine so unless they're into me... You can pretty much guarantee I ain't gonna flirt with them . It does suck
Like, if a girl is like running her fingers through my hair (Which I do love), and if she is like, touching my leg or something. I never know what to do, It's like ...I dont know what to next...I try to flirt but It comes out all wrong
Like I said. I have no idea If I guy was doing stuff like that to me... I'd pretty much be a bumbling mess of "Erm... Erm... Erm" :roflmao:
Right, it's ridiculous. I dont even want to know what a girl would do if she would kiss me. i'd be dumbfounded
I find flirting takes an acknowledged mutual attraction(something I never get) and comfort level to be done properly. It is also not like in the movies or tv shows, requires more of a connection, and varies from person to person. I personally haven't flirted with anyone but have done so from observing others. People only flirt with eachother if they are down to fuck.
