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I Got Her Number [Just Friends]

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by MidnightOwl, May 28, 2013.

  1. MidnightOwl

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    Well, I went out of the norm today and pulled all my strength into asking a someone for their nnumber. Only they shot me down by a long shot and said,

    "I hope you mean we're going to hang out just as friends"

    I'm like, yes

    I never considered it classy to sit there and just name someone off as my girlfriend. I have to get to know them first. Since I learned my lesson the hard way with my ex. But just friends could mean several things. They aren't into "woman", which means the'll never physically see me as I see myself. Or that they want to get to know me first.

    Either way I got a number today.
     
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    Woah, long time no see! Sorry about everything that's happened so far. :frowning2: I thought things were working out with your last girlfriend.
     
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    We broke up in February, six months we were together. Even turns out she is dating someone else. So now I am looking too.
     
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    I thought she decided to stay with you even after you were honest with her. If I remember correctly, she even made a profile on EC, right?
     
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    We broke up shortly after that. When I moved to Colorado she began to feel starved of attention because of external events outside of the relationship.

    A lot of our arguments and fights were based on her unable to stop connecting her family environment, with our relationship.

    I really needed my own space and my own time, and she wouldn't give it.

    That's the short story.