So I am a little confused. I am 28 years old and not sure what sexual orientation I am. In a nutshell I have explored with very few men. I am not physically attracted to men but when it comes to sex I do enjoy certain acts (not sure if I can name them on here or what the rules are on that). I have done oral (giving and recieving) and gotten rimmed. I do enjoy these acts a lot and they really turn me on. Even some gay porno has gotten me excited. I know I am not gay but I was wondering what constitutes being bisexual. I am into girls and physically attracted to them. Men are a different subject. I can engage in sexual acts with men and open to exploring more with them but I do not find them handsome, hot or cute. I am confused on what my orientation is. If I just enjoy the sexual stuff but not attracted to them physically what does that make me? I couldn't see myself ion a relationship with a guy but a sex buddy I wouldn't mind. This is why I am so confused. I have been this way for a few years now. It all started back when a significant encounter (for lack of a better term) happened. I witnessed something that is not my right to explain to everyone here but since then I have been curious. I have experimented with very few men as I am not open and want to be discreet. What do you guys think? I may be open to exp[lain in more detail in a private message if more information is needed.
Welcome to EC! I think you've given us a pretty good idea where you're coming from. And your explanation of the activities you've done is fine. If I had to toss a label on you based on one post, I'd say "heteroromantic/pansexual". You find yourself mainly emotionally drawn to females, but when it comes to sexual matters, you don't mind climbing into bed with either gender if you're in the mood. It's not as uncommon as all that. Feel free to call yourself that if you really want. Or stick with "straight". I can guarantee it'll mean fewer questions, and a lot more guys wanting to have sex with you. Lex
