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Sexually but not romantically attracted?

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by ahundredpennies, Jun 8, 2013.

  1. ahundredpennies

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    Hi. I'll try to keep this clean lol. Is it possible to be attracted to a man's package but not what it's attached to? I can't see myself in a relationship with a guy but can with a girl. But that's not to say I don't like gay porn, I just wouldn't want to have the performers for myself if that makes sense.
     
  2. Rexmond

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    Yep. it is possible, and not uncommon really. :slight_smile:

    Homoromantic Heterosexual? I don't know if that's a term, but the context would apply.
     
  3. Convoy

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    There are definably straight guys who hook up with gay guys sometimes for the same reasons, I wouldn't invalidate the thinking if a 'lesbian' wanted to use the same thinking (Not to throw that out there, but just kind of a rough equation).

    Who you like (or would like to) to have sex with isn't necessarily who you want to be partners with or are attracted to all the time, if that makes any sense.
     
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    I see what you mean. I am very sexually attracted to women, but I don't really get along with them. I also slept with a guy once because he has huge junk, but he was just so....dumb. Basically, I've found plenty of people incredibly sexy without actually wanting to be with them. I can look at someone and think, "Yeah, I bet they'd be fun in bed, but I also bet they can't cook."