I'm a cisgender female, and I've always been attracted to guys. I always identified as straight. Of course I had thought before "but what if I'm not", but it never lasted because I always found an interest in a cute guy. But recently I met this amazing girl and I can't stop thinking about her. She's pretty much everything I could ask for and more. But she's dating one of my friends. This girl, let's call her X, is a lesbian. She's been in a relationship with my friend for over a year, so I don't think I could ever have a chance with her. Not to mention I'm terrified out of my mind that someone will find out. I haven't ever been attracted to any girl but her. DOES NOT COMPUTE! Halp. Love, Louisa
Well, the main way to know if you are a lesbian/bi is, can you picture yourself having sexual intercourse with X? Can you see cuddling and kissing her?
Then odds are, you are. I can't guarantee you are. But you could be bisexual. I can't explain why you've never been attracted to girls before, but I heard that hormones can make you realize what you truly want. So maybe hormones.
Or I could be pansexual. ---------- Post added 24th Jun 2013 at 01:26 AM ---------- Maybe? Yargggggggh I don't like this
