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When should I ask

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by MidnightOwl, Jun 28, 2013.

  1. MidnightOwl

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    So, currently been talking to this girl and we've been flirty. She's really funny, has a charming personality and is very pretty.

    When do you ask to hang out?

    I'm really old fashion, I believe the first outing should be on the more casual side. Something in broad daylight, like coffee or maybe a brunch.

    Just, when should you ask that question?
     
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    Well if you are getting on well and its going to be a casual affair then I would just throw it into conversation one day and ask if she wants to grab a coffee.
     
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    Well, if you enjoy being with this girl (or talking to her) and she also enjoys your company (or talking to you) I don't think asking to hang out alone would be bad! Maybe the best time to ask would be if you are talking and having a good time? If she is flirting with you I don't see her saying no to hanging out with you :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    Just take it slow and it should unwind and happen naturally, I always just ask to hang out lol. But I haven't had a crush in a while so I don't know how different it is, I would probably take it slow with my crush :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: but if she is flirting back at you I see no problem with just asking her because she would most definitely say yes. Ask her to go for a walk with you or maybe go get some coffee :slight_smile: I know that if someone asked me out on a date and we went on a walk I would be super happy :slight_smile: Cause I love walking and talking to people especially if I have a crush on that person and that person has an awesome personality! hahaha :slight_smile:
     
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    Its been a while since I felt this blushy and all embarassed. She has a really nice personality. And we're kind of flirting getting to know one another.

    She asked if I was single, even told me I was her type.
     
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    Go for it then! She is totally into you! She must want you to take the first step :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: Just ask her out I bet she will say yes!
     
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    Well, if you've been talking lately there I'd say NOW is the right time, next time you talk just ask hang out
     
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    She asked me where I have been all her life, she thinks I'm intelligent and amazing.
     
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    We're going out tomorrow
     
  9. good luck let us know how it goes! :slight_smile:
     
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    She said she had a really good time. And she's still texting me which is a good sign.