But I feel comfortable in this!

I can relate to what you're feeling. Whenever I wear anything that my mom doesn't like (a vest, snapback hat, ect.) she says I can't wear it. And I'm like, "What do you mean I can't wear it?! I can dress myself, thank you. I wear what I like." I think she means well but she doesn't fully grasp the idea that if I didn't like what I was wearing I wouldn't be wearing it in the first place. Then whenever we go shopping she points out very feminine blouses and things that I would never wear in a million years. That's frustrating.

 

I can definitely relate. I am much more comfortable in guys' clothes. I, like you, am very tomboyish. I feel pretty self-conscious in dresses and skirts, even though I do still occasionally wear them when the mood strikes. But I never wear makeup. I have a mohawk (as per my sidebar), and I love to wear cargo shorts, t-shirts, and hoodies. I wear boxers and boxer briefs mostly. I hang out mostly with guys all the time. I've been asked why I "want to look like a boy" or if I ever hang out with girls so many times. The truth is, I belong in the world of guys.

I think more people are starting to accept the way I am, but it's probably just because I wore them down. I've just been like this for so long that it would just be weird if I was anything else. Honestly, you have nothing to worry about. They'll all just have to get over it eventually.

 

Definitely know that feel. I can't tell you the number of times I have came downstairs and had to turn right back around and change because mom said I looked like a guy! I ever have a secret stash of snapbacks that I only wear in my room and with friends that she doesn't know about! Secret Snapacks? Really? Should it have to go that far???

 

:roflmao: The only reason I find this funny is because I know exactly how that feels!

 

:eusa_clap:eusa_clap I am building up my collection for when I come out to everyone and not give two flying flips in college! XD

 

I'm the same way and went through the same way. I still have really ugly clothes I don't like, but I kind of fear what people will say.

I want a wardrobe that mixes between my masculinity and feminity. I want to be "Limosuine Trash Ghetto"

Kind of like my avatar <---

I want to wear edgy vest with button down shirts and ties. But I fear what people will say. But I'm not comfortable in anything I wear. I feel ugly.

And that's all because my dad always got mad. He said I need to start dressing the way I want people to see me. And he said that since I'm biologically female. That I should dress like a woman.

 

I like the way you think! HAHA

 

Ha, thanks. I'm gonna come out as SnapBack wearer my freshman year

 

I just wanted to say I know how you feel as well. I dress very tomboyish, through out high-school I thought being a girl I had to look feminine so I started to buy more feminine clothing in order to fit in. I wasn't comfortable with myself. Since I've come out and become more comfortable with who I am I've dressed more on the butch side of things. I just buy the clothes that make me feel comfortable. The clothes I know I'll wear. I've bought high heels in the past, still have them in my closet, I've never worn them in public. Sometimes my aunts will give me gifts, like a nice pair of heels, or makeup, Iddon't wear it. It's just not something I'm comfortable wearing, so I don't wear it.

Sometimes I get asked why I dress like a boy, I normally just say "I feel comfortable dressing this way. I don't like skirts and dresses. There's more ways to dress as a girl than in a skirt or a dress."