sexual problems

[fiddlemiddle]

Hi I have erection problems and so far I have been very inactive sexually. Even with watching porn I have problems getting it up.

The problem is I met an guy quite an while ago and he wants to go out with me. We never had sex and I just afraid of sex since I have erection problems. How do I say this to him? I told my doctor about it and he gave me an generic version of Vigara. I never have used it as never had an chance. What should i tell with my partner?

[TheWanderer]

I deal with some of the same stuff. Ya it can be embarrassing but really its not a huge deal. And also depending on what you and/ or your partner prefer in the bedroom it may not be a problem at all.

As far as talking to him, maybe find out what his interests are in relation to sex. You may find out that your penis plays such a small role in his desires. Feel him out, gather a little knowledge. And if need be just tell him the truth. Or you could play it off like I have a few times and get the point across that you like to service instead of being serviced.

Anyhow dont be so concerned. Its common and I would like to think that most people are understanding. Hope everything works out.

[aerwolfen]

Be truthfull and up front with him,tell him that you have or had a plm with getting it up and that you care for him alot and your afraid that you will lose him because of it,if he is really a stand up guy then he will help you out by playing with it to make you hard,perhaps its all you need is that sensual touch from another person,.
I love guys and their penis's I love touching them ,but i too have a plm with keeping it up while being together,because i focus so much on making them happy that my focus causes mine to go limp,sure it might be my age having a factor in it,- but truth be told every morning I have a very raging hard on when waking up,so I know I can get it up,so more on the mental thing blocking my passion.be truthful let him help ease your tensions and focus being together,touch each other regain the fire that burns deep inside you,I have faith in you.let me know how it works out.