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Old 6th Sep 2011, 07:59 AM   #1
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hey folks im an open minded str8 guy and me and my girlfreind have been having trouble finding my prostate we've tried allsorts but with no luck dont get me wrong it all feels good but id like to get the full experiance. iv looked on here but couldnt find much on it so would be greatfull if some1 could help us. thanks in advance. mike
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Hey Mike,

Glad to hear you're so open minded! The prostate is about three or four inches inside the anus. Once you have your object of choice inside at least that much, try aiming it slightly toward the belly button/front pubic region. A lot of times, people aim straight down inside, and that could be why you and your girlfriend keep missing it.

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I'm not sure how far in the prostate is but 3-4 inches sounds about right. It's in there, you'll find it!
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cheers guys ill try that out. I can kinda see why some guys would go gay lol
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Just FYI people don't "go gay." Goodluck with your girlfriend.~
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I assume that you girlfriend is trying to find it with her finger? Normally it's about the length of your own index finger but women usually have smaller hands, so it's a bit more of a challenge for them.

The best way to picture where it's at is that it's under the pubic bone. If you feel above the shaft of you penis below your beltline, you'll feel the pubic bone over your bladder.

What I usually tell guys is to place their hand on the pubic bone and have their partner move their finger in that direction. Women may need to use their middle finger instead of their index finger.

What does it feel like? If you use your finger feel the tip of your tongue between your molars and against your cheek, it feels much like what the prostate feels like- a firm bump with some soft tissue on top of it.

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hey thank's thats really helpfull will try that out later lol. Sorry for the above coment didnt mean to cause any offence.
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hey thank's thats really helpfull will try that out later lol. Sorry for the above coment didnt mean to cause any offence.
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If having fun with the prostate was all it took to make a guy gay, there probably wouldn't be a lot of straight guys left.
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