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Old 7th Oct 2011, 08:12 PM   #1
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Default can you experience an orgasm while being the bottom in anal sex?

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Old 7th Oct 2011, 08:16 PM   #2
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Default Re: can you experience an orgasm while being the bottom in anal sex?

The top's gotta know what he's doing. He needs to massage the prostate. It's never happened with me, but I look forward to it. But it's not too hard to get an orgasm from getting a handjob while being bottom. That's pretty awesome.
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Default Re: can you experience an orgasm while being the bottom in anal sex?

Hell yeah, man. It's hard to do though. He pretty much has to hit your prostate again and again.
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Default Re: can you experience an orgasm while being the bottom in anal sex?

If you are relying on the anal/prostate stimulation alone, then it is quite difficult (and it probably won't be the same sort of orgasm as you are used to; see the second half of this post from a couple of days ago).

However you can still receive a handjob from yourself or your partner whilst you are bottoming, and this most likely will result in a more intense orgasm because of the simultaneous prostate stimulation.
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can you experience an orgasm while being the bottom in anal sex?
Yes, and that's kind of the point.

I guess what you may be asking is two things- can a bottom orgasm just from getting fucked and can a bottom come while getting fucked?

The answer is "yes" to both accounts.

The first part of the answer is solely about orgasms. We get questions in H&W and the anonymous forums from guys who are worried because they aren't hard when they are bottoming. They say that they are really enjoying it, they are really in the zone but they just aren't hard. This probably falls under the category of prostatic massage/orgasm and it perfectly normal. They're getting waves of pleasure very much like an orgasm, they may leak precum but they aren't ejaculating.

The other part of the question is about ejaculation - whether someone on bottom can get hard and come while getting fucked. The answer is yes. In most cases, guys need to be manually stimulated- either by jacking themselves off or having their partner jack them- in order to ejaculate. Occasionally, it is possible to come without any other stimulation- a hands-free ejaculation- but this is not common. Most guys will say that they reach a point while on bottom where the pleasure is so intense that they want to come and at this point they usually jack themselves off to get release.

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