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andrewshell11 · 9th Oct 2011, 01:26 PM

Ok. I am 15 years old and a gay male. I know your probably thinking "your only 15. You shouldn't be having sex". Well, I'm not. This is just a question that I want to know some information about before I do have anal sex, when I'm ready. That way I am prepared.

Below are the questions I have:

1. Does it hurt?
2. Do you need to shave the area before having anal sex (as the bottom)?
3. Don't you get... waste... on the tops penis? If so, how do you prevent it?
4. How can I be safe when I do decide to do it?

Thanks. I just want to be prepared for when I find the right person and for when I'm ready

**Mogget** · 9th Oct 2011, 01:42 PM

1. It doesn't hurt if done correctly. That means you have to prep the area (usually by inserting first one, then more, fingers into the anus, I think there may be sex toys designed for this function as well) and use plenty of lube. Although it won't affect the pain or pleasure you feel, the top should wear a condom to prevent infection (which includes, but is not limited to, HIV).

2. No. Shaving in an aesthetic preference.

3. If you've voided your bowels and cleaned around the area with soap and water you should be fine.

4. Condoms.

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andrewshell11 · 9th Oct 2011, 03:26 PM

Thank you for this valuable information. I will definitely read this information.

Revan · 9th Oct 2011, 04:28 PM

Yeah Liam's correct about number 4. Condoms are a must. They're the best way to be safe.It can also be for number 3 cause at least if something were to happen...it would be on the condom not the cock.

Ridiculous · 9th Oct 2011, 06:48 PM

The best way to be safe during sex is to have sex with someone you trust, not just random people you've just met.

Of course condoms are very important as well.. but things can go wrong (they can break, or fall off, or your partner can deliberately take it off without you knowing) in which case things become significantly more risky if you're with someone whose sexual history you don't know.

9th Oct 2011, 01:26 PM	#1
andrewshell11 Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Posts: 18 Join Date: Oct 2011	Questions about Anal Sex Ok. I am 15 years old and a gay male. I know your probably thinking "your only 15. You shouldn't be having sex". Well, I'm not. This is just a question that I want to know some information about before I do have anal sex, when I'm ready. That way I am prepared. Below are the questions I have: 1. Does it hurt? 2. Do you need to shave the area before having anal sex (as the bottom)? 3. Don't you get... waste... on the tops penis? If so, how do you prevent it? 4. How can I be safe when I do decide to do it? Thanks. I just want to be prepared for when I find the right person and for when I'm ready

9th Oct 2011, 01:42 PM	#2
Mogget Mad and dead as nails EC Advisor Gender: Male Orientation: Kinsey 5 or 6. It varies Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Alaska Age: 22 Posts: 2,026 Join Date: Mar 2010	Re: Questions about Anal Sex 1. It doesn't hurt if done correctly. That means you have to prep the area (usually by inserting first one, then more, fingers into the anus, I think there may be sex toys designed for this function as well) and use plenty of lube. Although it won't affect the pain or pleasure you feel, the top should wear a condom to prevent infection (which includes, but is not limited to, HIV). 2. No. Shaving in an aesthetic preference. 3. If you've voided your bowels and cleaned around the area with soap and water you should be fine. 4. Condoms. See the articles below for more information Empty Closets - Anal Sex Empty Closets - Getting Clean for Anal Sex __________________ "As to what I am, I once was many things but now I am only several." - Mogget in Sabriel by Garth Nix "The world is quiet here." - VFD

9th Oct 2011, 03:26 PM	#3
andrewshell11 Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Posts: 18 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: Questions about Anal Sex Thank you for this valuable information. I will definitely read this information.

9th Oct 2011, 04:28 PM	#4
Revan EC Addict Full Member Gender: M for MEEP! Orientation: Mutant and Proud Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Windsor, Ontario Age: 24 Posts: 6,569 Join Date: Jun 2005	Re: Questions about Anal Sex Yeah Liam's correct about number 4. Condoms are a must. They're the best way to be safe.It can also be for number 3 cause at least if something were to happen...it would be on the condom not the cock. __________________ "Is there some reason my coffee isn't here? Has she died or something?" - Miranda Priestly. Strength is not defined by physical capacity, but by indomitable will. ~ Mahatma Gandhi Procrastination is like masturbation, in the end you just wind up screwing yourself.

9th Oct 2011, 06:48 PM	#5
Ridiculous EC Addict Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Friends Location: New Zealand Age: 20 Posts: 935 Join Date: Dec 2010	Re: Questions about Anal Sex The best way to be safe during sex is to have sex with someone you trust, not just random people you've just met. Of course condoms are very important as well.. but things can go wrong (they can break, or fall off, or your partner can deliberately take it off without you knowing) in which case things become significantly more risky if you're with someone whose sexual history you don't know.

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