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Old 25th Nov 2011, 02:10 PM   #1
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Greetings from the Great White North!
I am a 41 year old married mother of 2. I would describe my sexuality as fluid. I am attracted to both genders. I have been married to my husband for 17 yrs, out to him for the last 1.5 yrs or so - but he said it was NO SURPRISE TO HIM!! lol It actually saved our marriage when I finally admitted it to myself and to him. It was like releasing the steam from a pressure cooker or something. I suddenly felt free, for the first time I can remember.

I am only out to a few close friends/colleagues. Our kids are in their early to mid teens, and have endured much the last couple of years. I don't want to add to their stress. We living a small city which is pretty right wing. My background is VERY conservative religious Christian (think head-covering, no makeup, no pants, no jewelry, etc). So I have come a freakin' looooong way, baby! Many paradigm shifts over the last 5 yrs.

I am now an ordained metaphysical minister, working on my MA in metaphysics (thesis on meditation). I am opening a holistic business in the new year, have already done a great deal of counseling folks. Am now certified in massage, too. I love my life!

Cheers to you all, thanks for welcoming me to your community!
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Old 25th Nov 2011, 02:14 PM   #2
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Default Re: Hi from Canada

Hello, Hippiemom, and welcome to EC.

Glad to hear your husband taking your coming out to him so well.
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Old 25th Nov 2011, 02:15 PM   #3
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Heyo, welcome to EC!
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Old 25th Nov 2011, 07:17 PM   #4
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Default Re: Hi from Canada

Hello and Welcome!!
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Old 25th Nov 2011, 07:22 PM   #5
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Default Re: Hi from Canada

Welcome!

Coming out saved your marriage?! Very unusual, but very fortuitous.

All the best, see you around.
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Old 25th Nov 2011, 07:37 PM   #6
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Bienvenue!!
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Old 25th Nov 2011, 07:39 PM   #7
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Hi and welcome to EC!
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Old 26th Nov 2011, 05:36 AM   #8
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