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Old 12th Dec 2011, 12:15 PM   #1
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Hello Everyone!

Of course I am a newbie here, but I look forward to making new friends. This seems like a warm, welcoming place to be and I hope it continues to feel that way. I am a middle aged individual who has for most of my life identified as a butch lesbian, but, in this last year or so, I am really beginning to question whether this is my correct identity. I'm seriously beginning to think I am transgendered and not a butch lesbian. I have been tossing the whole subject back and forth like a ship caught in the roaring 40's, (yes, I am a nautical buff...) The possibility of this truth scares and excites me all at the same time, so here I am, hoping to work out some of my puzzle pieces. Anyone else here finding themselves at a later age dealing with this or something like this? Thanks!
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Old 12th Dec 2011, 12:40 PM   #2
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Hey, welcome to the site =)

I'm afraid I'm only 21, but I can certainly relate to your feelings of gender confusion. There are many other's on this site who certainly can as well. I think you came to the right place if you are looking to find out more about yourself. Good luck figuring it all out =) I know it can be complicated.
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Old 12th Dec 2011, 12:49 PM   #3
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It's wonderful to have you on board, welcome to the EC crew

You'll find many transgender members on here, as well as more mature members of our community. Stick around, I hope you enjoy it here!
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Old 12th Dec 2011, 01:40 PM   #4
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Hello! How's it going?

As Rosina said, there a lot of transgender members here at EC as well as older members. Hope you find the community useful and supportive.

Best,

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Old 12th Dec 2011, 01:42 PM   #5
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Hi and welcome to EC!

I'm sure you'll find everything you're looking for here.
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Old 12th Dec 2011, 02:03 PM   #6
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Hello, and welcome to EC.
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Old 12th Dec 2011, 02:04 PM   #7
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Heyo, welcome to EC!
There are a few older members here. If you can find them, I'm sure they'll be happy to help you!
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Old 12th Dec 2011, 03:01 PM   #8
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Hey welcome to EC.
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Old 12th Dec 2011, 03:03 PM   #9
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Hello and Welcome!!
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Old 12th Dec 2011, 05:41 PM   #10
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Hi and welcome!
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Old 12th Dec 2011, 05:43 PM   #11
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Welcome! I am only 20 and no gender confusion here... but I will support you and give advice where I can!
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Old 12th Dec 2011, 07:02 PM   #12
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So glad to meet you! Welcome!
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Old 12th Dec 2011, 07:21 PM   #13
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HI!...well BYE! Sry if I act stupid sorta a habit :P
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Old 12th Dec 2011, 09:41 PM   #14
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Bienvenue!!
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Old 13th Dec 2011, 03:04 PM   #15
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Thanks for much for your kind words! : )
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Old 13th Dec 2011, 07:42 PM   #16
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