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Old 22nd Jan 2012, 04:56 PM   #1
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Default Hello There

(I just realised I'm going to have to put my name on here)

I'm Leaving216, I'm almost 17, and I'm just starting to come to terms with this whole 'being gay' thing after spending a good 18 months in denial. I've got a sickeningly pretentious music taste, play guitar, and excel at being socially awkward.

I have no idea who I would tell in 'real life' (I'd be terrified they'd just tell everyone else, and I'm nowhere near ready for that) and I figured this would be a good place to just come and see how other people like me deal with it.

So yeah, Hi!
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Old 22nd Jan 2012, 05:49 PM   #2
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Hi!
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Old 22nd Jan 2012, 06:09 PM   #3
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Default Re: Hello There

that is the cutest post ever lol... welcome

i will set forth that YOU, my young friend will have a phenomenal time in college. i think your sense of social awkwardness is actually that you are probably ahead of your peers

stick around and share what's going on with you. you'll likely realize that people are dealing with the same things as you and you're not so alone as you feel.

again, welcome

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Old 22nd Jan 2012, 06:18 PM   #4
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Welcome! You've already started the process simply by telling us! There's no rush to tell anyone else, and I think as you spend time here and read and contribute, you'll start to feel more comfortable about who you are, and that will make it easier to come out.

But for now, just relax. Read. Learn. Talk about anything that concerns you, no matter how dumb you might perceive it to be, there are no dumb questions here

And if you want to speak with someone one-on-one, our team of advisors are here to help. So feel free to message me or any of the other advisor team and we'll be happy to talk to you.
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Old 22nd Jan 2012, 06:41 PM   #5
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Hello and Welcome!!
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Old 22nd Jan 2012, 09:16 PM   #6
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I also excel at being socially awkward! *awkward high-five*

Anyways, to EC! You have indeed found the right place for finding out how others deal with acceptance and coming out.
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Old 22nd Jan 2012, 09:20 PM   #7
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Hey! Bienvenido a EC!
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Old 22nd Jan 2012, 10:52 PM   #8
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Bienvenue!
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Old 23rd Jan 2012, 02:09 AM   #9
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Hello and welcome!
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Old 23rd Jan 2012, 02:13 AM   #10
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Heyo, welcome to EC!
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Old 23rd Jan 2012, 02:24 AM   #11
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Hey welcome to EC

Well then don't worry about such steps yet!
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Old 23rd Jan 2012, 03:12 AM   #12
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Hey welcome to EC.
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Old 23rd Jan 2012, 04:46 AM   #13
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Welcome!! You've come to the right place!

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Old 23rd Jan 2012, 04:49 PM   #14
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Thanks everyone! It really means a lot that there's people out there that actually read this.
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Old 23rd Jan 2012, 10:19 PM   #15
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Well, Welcome to EC, I am new here too, but not to being transgender lol! Hope you Enjoy this place as much as I am already and hope to continue to do so.
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Old 23rd Jan 2012, 11:43 PM   #16
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hey there and welcome to EC!!!
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Old 24th Jan 2012, 10:06 AM   #17
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Hello fellow Brit!

If you need a hand with anything, just tap me.
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Old 24th Jan 2012, 11:24 AM   #18
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Hey, fellow socially awkward person! Welcome, and can I just say I joined this site feeling very much the same way as you, and thanks to this site, I'm now out and completely happy with myself. So open you heart on whatever you feel, and this site will definitely help you to become comfortable with your sexuality
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