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Being a Top

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by Biotech49, Jul 7, 2013.

  1. Biotech49

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    I found out that I absolutely love being a "top"! Now that I am enjoying "that" aspect of my life for the first time in 50 years, I like being the one to take control of the situation. This is fun!

    Ladies, do you like being a top or a bottom or both? I do have to admit that I have some studying to do (LOL) but she makes a good study buddy.

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  2. HopeFloats

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    How awesome to discover this about yourself! My 19 year old self was a "bottom" in my first relationship but in my other encounters with women in the next couple of years I was a top. I really loved taking charge in the bedroom with women. Now, it's been 14 years to the month since I've had any sexual encounters with women. I do look forward to exploring this dynamic now that I'm older and more confident.

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    I do think that the answer for me will be both depending on my partner : )