I found out that I absolutely love being a "top"! Now that I am enjoying "that" aspect of my life for the first time in 50 years, I like being the one to take control of the situation. This is fun! Ladies, do you like being a top or a bottom or both? I do have to admit that I have some studying to do (LOL) but she makes a good study buddy. :icon_redf :icon_bigg
How awesome to discover this about yourself! My 19 year old self was a "bottom" in my first relationship but in my other encounters with women in the next couple of years I was a top. I really loved taking charge in the bedroom with women. Now, it's been 14 years to the month since I've had any sexual encounters with women. I do look forward to exploring this dynamic now that I'm older and more confident. ---------- Post added 7th Jul 2013 at 01:07 PM ---------- I do think that the answer for me will be both depending on my partner : )