ive dated men since i was 14/15 im now almost 25. i havent had a long relationship with any of them there was always something missing IYGWIM? not sure if thats normal. there were signs i was attracted to women but i didnt really see them until a few months ago. i think some men are HOT! but i can never have an emotional connection with them does that mean im bi? im so confused.
You could be a homoromantic bisexual which means that you're physically attracted to people of both genders but emotionally only to people of your own gender. Sounds to me pretty much like that. Or maybe you are bisexual and haven't met the right man yet. Or you're straight and start questioning your sexual orientation because you think that something's missing and conclude that it's the wrong gender you've chosen. Can't tell until you've tried women too, tbh.