Someone a while back had posted about a book for straight spouses - "The Other Side Of The Closet"... I bought the book, hoping that there might be something in it that I could relate to. Unfortunately, most of the stories were a bit dated, and I never really felt a connection. Last night I started reading "Over the Cliff: Gay Husbands in Straight Marriages". Not finished with the book yet, but much better; more up to date, and I can actually see myself in almost every one of the stories I've read so far. So far I would recommend it to any gay man who is married to a straight spouse and is looking for answers! Anyone else read this one? Thoughts?