I'm transgender, and I've known it since I was six. Somehow the need to keep it secret was impressed upon me, and I did so for the next six decades. I fought a battle within myself and, in the end, understood that it was not one I could win. I've come out to my wife and just recently to my family and my friends. I published a book about my struggle and eventual self-acceptance. I grew tired of hiding. I'm not ashamed of myself. I want to be an example to younger people that you can be out and proud of who you are no matter what your age. I've joined a local group to offer support to others like me. My real name is Ken. I'm 72. I live in Deltona, Florida. I'm male-to-female transgender.
Welcome Kenna! Your awesome! One of the most stunning women I have ever seen is trans. Just starting to understand that it is something projected outward from the core regardless of the outer physical self . When I saw this woman the other day I nearly fell over....
I admire your courage, Kenna. I am following a similar path, but haven't come to the point where I can come out yet. I feel that my life is winding down and I would love to live my life quietly and privately as a woman. You are a wonderful role model for people like me.
Lindsay, I don't think it's courage. You just reach a point at which you realize you've lived you whole life for others, and at the same time you have this force pushing you in a certain direction. You just get tired of fighting it after a while, because it never goes away and keeps getting stronger. You wonder if your very sanity is at risk. This quote sums it up for me: “And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.” ― Anaïs Nin
Welcome, Kenna. I was 72 when I came out too. And it's wonderful. Heading to the fall gathering of Radical Faeries in Tenn in a few hours. I love my life!
I'm glad you were able to finally make that decision - to live an honest and authentic life. Congratulations, and welcome to this community.
