Hi, I'm 27 and have only had relations With women previously, I've never found Men attractive at all really and have Never been intimate with one either. That said a few years ago I stumbled Upon transsexuals on the internet. I've mostly considered myself straight But for some reason found the feminine One attractive. Anyway I finally took the plunge After being afraid too for a while and ended Up sleeping with one. Afterwards I wondered What all the fuss was about and realised I'm really not that interested in repeating The experience, what does it mean?
OK, I get lost really easy when the topic turns to trans, especially when it starts to become, like, they're hetero but identify as a different sex, and then as the conversation progresses I lose track of what came first and if they're speaking as what they trans'ed into or what they were before when they talk about themselves as gay or lesbian or straight. So bear with me. I'm going to try. So was the transgendered person you were with MTF and very feminine in appearance or FTM and feminine in appearance or just FTM? Because it's really hard to say what it says about you without knowing more about the other person involved. Get what I mean?
I am sorry you had a bad experience! I am not kidding when I say 9 out of 10 straight men will ask for a blo within a short time of knowing me and most want it all pretty quickly. I think straight guys see us trans-women as forbidden sex objects. Usually once he tastes the fruit he is hooked in my experence. No different than a blow-up doll or a porn dvd, we are taboo. You are straight, we are women. Just with a different package than the cis-women you are used to. Hell if it was not for you straight men, I would not get a date! LOL Don't worry about it, just think of it as you were with a woman, because that is what she is. If she was a real Trans-woman that is. June
Hi, it was a very feminine mtf trans with Real womanly 'features' shall we say, It was nt necessarily a bad experience I just think I needed to get it out of My system if you know what I mean
Your probably just a straight man nothing more. Your attraction was probably more of a fetish than an orientation. The taboo of the act might be what attracted you. Go get yourself a girlfriend and move on. Just be sure to support the wonderful transgendered people of the world from now on.
Yes, you are still straight. When you become attracted to gay guys or bi guys you then would be bi as you would then be attracted to another male = same sex attraction. You were just with another woman with body issues and you chose to accept her enough to enjoy her or you found her different body alluring in a naughty sort of way. No different than a man with a obese woman fetish, or black woman fetish. Straight men quite often find us trans-women exiting in a naughty fetish sort of way. So if you do fancy sex with us trans-women, find us alluring, or even ever fall for one of us. Just remember you are still being attracted to a female and treat her with all the love and respect you would any other woman you are interested in without the feeling of gilt or worry about your sexual orientation. Go on and enjoy your life whatever you choose to do without regret as you only live once. I guess what I am trying to say is if the urge for one of us comes back, don't worry or fight it, but roll with it and enjoy yourself as we are very special women who are gifts from God to men! June
As always June thank you for the insight on trans life/issues! From my old small town to the new city seeing quite a few trans folks. I don't like being ignorant. Lots of people criticize Walmart but every one I've been to including one in the middle of huntin' country has had at Least 1 trans woman working there.
