Wow... Just over 2 months ago I finally came out to my wife. And, as of Tuesday, our divorce is final. Got the paperwork in the mail today. Not sure how I feel like about that yet...
Not sure you have to feel anything in particular. You may end feeling many things. If you need to talk them out, we are here for you!
Not sure congratulations is the right word, but it's a big milestone as you move toward becoming your authentic self. How did you get it all done in 2 months? Did you use mediation?
Wow is right! Once the shock wears off, I hope the peace settles in. One step at a time, right? (*hug*)
Hey drs, I am in the same boat- have signed my papers, waiting on prove up date. Then it'll be final. Sometimes wish EC was a real place, so when there are times like this where there aren't really words, and way too many emotions, we could just sit together. So, sitting with you now....
This sounds quick and expedient. I take it you didn't have children. Are you relieved or are you a little blue? Any type of closure (graduation, retirement, end of a relationship, move, etc.) reportedly brings on stress. It's because a lot of intense energy or involvement is suddenly lifted. I often got sick right after finals, for a couple of days, from exhaustion, for example.
My ten year divorce anniversary date is coming up. This post just reminded me that I should have a party. Yes OneSpirit - and it would be nice to be able to hug others who are on here too!
Congratulations for your courage! I am almost on the same boat. I want to ask for divorce but I am having many difficulties for coming out to my wife because I have afraid she would tell other people because we live in a small city.
